The most wanted gifts for her

Amazon Kindle Paperwhite

Wanted for Making 'I don't have time to read' a much harder excuse.

A glare-free e-reader that holds thousands of books, runs for weeks on a charge, and slips into a coat pocket. It's easy on the eyes in bed and on a sunny beach, which a phone can't claim.

Why it's here Ideal if she's always saying she wants to read more, or if her nightstand has a stack that's stopped moving.

Let it slide if They love the feel of paper and have told you so more than once.

Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Throw

Wanted for Being suspiciously soft for something that costs that much.

A plush throw blanket that's a favorite in luxury gift guides for good reason. It's far softer than anything most people would buy for themselves, and it holds up to regular washing.

Why it's here This is the textbook example of a gift she wouldn't buy for herself and won't want to give back.

Let it slide if They're happy with a $20 fleece. Don't tell them the price.

Slip Pure Silk Pillowcase

Wanted for Being the fanciest thing anyone's ever slept on.

A smooth silk pillowcase that's gentle on hair and feels indulgent every night. It's a small luxury that many people love but would never buy themselves, which makes it a good gift.

Why it's here A small daily luxury, and it's easy to wrap. It makes a nice pairing with the lip mask further down this list.

Let it slide if They'd resent hand-washing or delicate-cycle laundry.

LEGO Botanicals Flower Bouquet

Wanted for Staying alive long after real flowers would have given up.

A buildable bouquet that gives adults an evening of quiet focus and a display piece afterward. It looks surprisingly elegant in a vase and never needs watering.

Let it slide if They don't enjoy following instructions, even the fun kind.

Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug 2

Wanted for Refusing to let a cup of coffee go cold.

A heated mug that holds a drink at the exact temperature set in its app. It's a luxury nobody buys for themselves, which is what makes it such a reliable gift for anyone who forgets their coffee on the desk.

Let it slide if They finish every cup in five minutes.

Hatch Restore 3 Sunrise Alarm

Wanted for Waking people up without making them hate the morning.

A bedside sunrise alarm and sound machine that gently brightens to wake you. It's a nice way to get the phone out of the bedroom, and a thoughtful pick for bad sleepers.

Let it slide if They're happy with their current routine and don't want another app.

Fujifilm Instax Mini 12 Instant Camera

Wanted for Printing evidence of the party on the spot.

A simple instant camera that spits out credit-card-size prints in seconds. It's easy enough for anyone to use, and it brings a little magic to birthdays, trips, and dorm walls. Add an extra pack of film.

Let it slide if They'd be annoyed by the ongoing cost of film.

Homesick Scented Candle

Wanted for Smelling like a home state and causing feelings without warning.

Candles with scents themed around states, cities, and memories. Picking one that fits where somebody's from makes it feel personal, even if you only found it this morning.

Let it slide if They're sensitive to fragrance, or live with someone who is.

Owala FreeSip Insulated Water Bottle

Wanted for Solving the sip-or-swig debate with one lid.

An insulated bottle with a built-in straw and a wide opening for big gulps. It comes in a long list of colors and is the kind of everyday upgrade people use until the paint wears off.

Let it slide if They're fiercely loyal to the giant cup with the handle.

Wingspan Board Game

Wanted for Being far more competitive than a bird game has any right to be.

A gorgeous strategy game about attracting birds to your wildlife preserve. The art alone makes it a great gift, and it scratches the itch for players who've outgrown the basics.

Let it slide if They want quick party laughs. This one rewards patient planning.

Laneige Lip Sleeping Mask

Wanted for Occupying nightstands everywhere with no sign of stopping.

An overnight lip treatment in a cute little pot that comes in several flavors. It's a beauty counter favorite at a price that works well for a stocking stuffer or small gift.

Let it slide if They have a lip balm routine they won't hear a word against.

Kitsch Satin Heatless Curling Set

Wanted for Doing their hair in their sleep.

A soft satin rod you wrap damp hair around overnight, then wake up with curls and no heat damage. It's cheap, kind to hair, and it's an especially popular pick with teens.

Let it slide if Their hair is very short. It needs some length to work.